Robert G. Lee, Ph.D., a psychologist in private practice in Newton, Massachusetts, USA, has written extensively and presented widely on shame and belonging as regulator processes of the relational field. Robert’s books include The Voice of Shame (1996), The Values of Connection (2004), The Secret Language of Intimacy (2008), and Relational Child, Relational Brain (2011). He is an editor at GestaltPress, a faculty member for the Advanced Child and Adolescent Program at the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland and an international trainer and visiting faculty member of a number of Gestalt training programs in Australia, Canada, Europe, Mexico, and the USA.